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*ena1
writes:hello every body.i don t know from where i start. i have just moved to usa and got married. i know nothing here. all the time i am bored. even my husband takes me from time to another for ride. i wanted to go gym he did not want to let me i wanted to work every time he finds excuse for me. i feel lonely i dont have any friends here no one i dont find any one to talk with, i dont know where i go or from where i come. what should i do to know things or search for friends or work.i feel like a kid i can do nothing without my husband. i need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (17 February 2009):
 sounds like your husband doesn't want you to be independent so he can have control over you. It's your life, why do you need to ask him if you can work?
Just do it. Learn to drive, or take the bus. Or you can sign up for classes at your local community college.
You will be happier when you get out there and do things on your own. He's your husband not your father.
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