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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hello I'm 27 yrs old I've been living with my mother and step father since last year reason being i lost my job because i was pregnant. i was engaged to my daughter's father who was living with a room mate at the time. we were saving to move in together but it all went towards the pregnancy and the baby.he got frustrated when he had to pretty much pay all the medical bills then he lost his job on top of it so we were both jobless which made it worst. my mother and him got into an argument over money issues and our relationship, words were said how much they hated each other and my mom banned him from the house and me being caught in the middle was getting it the worst.I have an older child who he adores and looks up to him as a father but she doesn't even wants him around my son either. He apologized to my mom for all the stress he caused but my mom said he's one person she hate that she's taking to her grave.I forgave him and we patched things up so we are together. when i told her we were together she flipped out and don't even want him to come see his kid.She even cut down his visiting rights to just one day a week just so he cant see me it pisses both of us off because she is taking away our rights to act as parents and be responsible! she have ruined every relationship i have been in in the past because of how she hated my exes even the ones that treated me like a queen. she even controls my step dad so he is like her little lap dog! she tells my younger brother to dump his girlfriend and get and older woman who will take care of him. Now my baby's daddy and i are saving and planning to move in together and i know its gonna hurt her but i cant live like this I'm very caring and forgiving and she is so negative and tries to hinder me from making my own decisions.I'm just concerned about how she will handle the fact that I'm moving in with him because she told me to live with him if i want to be with him but leave my little boy with her, im not going to do that. please help!
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 Hun, you are aged between 26 -29 ??? Then move out, you are not a minor anymore!!
What rights does your mother have to restrict his visiting rights?? Has she got legal documents to prove that she is the guardian of the child??
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