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writes:I get so depressed this time of year.im a single parent with a 4 year old daughter. Its just when the summer is here i get so lonely. I would love to be in a relationship. I sit in and see people having bbqs. Going to the pub in the evening having a drink. I just miss those things so much. Its hard cos the man that i was will 4 3 years.goes out at the wkend with his friends and female friends. And ex girlfriend. The whole time we were together he never invited me to weddings. Or out with his friends! And b4 i met him he had slept with nearly 100 women! Which made me paranoid. He has commitment issues! I just hate the thought of him charming everyone havin fun flirting. When ive felt lonely in in this relationship 4 so long. And lonely now. Hes a good looking chap and i know he been with various women since we spilt. Just the thought of spending the summer on my own fills me with dread. When he will be out having the time of his life. With no remorse for what hes done to me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): Screw him u don't need him there's better things in life than that first find your
Self do awesome things be happy for what u got n be patient n things will workout well :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): I know you are hurting, and I'm so sorry. But nothing will ever get better, if you don't take control of your life! You need to stop dwelling on the negative feelings you are having! Start living again! Go out with friends. Reinvent yourself! Decide what you want to be...and become it! It's not easy, it takes time and effort, but it is achievable!
Here in the states, we have an organization called "Parents without Partners." Maybe there is something like that over there. I'm sure if you research it on the computer, you will find support, and good friends to talk to...possibly even more...they have events to attend, get-togethers, enjoyable social gatherings that will take your mind off the painfulness of the past!
You will never get anywhere, sitting home watching the rest of the world enjoying life! You have to start living again! You can do it! There can be happiness after a break-up!
Be Strong!
Britt
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