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anonymous
writes: My Ex has found someone else.....why does it hurt?My girlfriend of 1 year 8 months broke up with me about a month ago and I was OK with it I guess, cause we were kinda fighting a lot and things kinda fell apart. She said we could still be friends and I said it was OK. Now she has a new boyfriend and I feel like crap. I feel like I want to be with her again but I know she doesn't want to be with me. I'm always depressed when she talks to me about him and what's worse is every time she hangs out with him I feel that they are having sex and I can't help but get more depressedWhat should I do?
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):
dear reader you really must get over this one it is doing you no good thinking whatif people do move on thats the point of spliting up try and be happy for her i think this is you not wanting to be alone not to do with her you may still feel soemthing shes your ex but life moves on mate and you need to get out there have some fun and prove to yourself shes not the only girl in the world you will find love againi hope you work this out don't hang on to the past it will only bite you in the bum and she may even end up not talking to you at all be thankful you are still friends it better then nothing and just keep telling yourslef why you split in the first placegood luck mate xxx
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