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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone i need advice you see my GF today acted wierd she was more lively and more wild it even got to a point that i got a bit jealous.You see she greeted our friend he greeted back but then i said (lets make his name ryan) "ryan you didn't greet me" he said silly i greet the eldest 1st then my GF said "no he's older than me but you said hi to me 1st you love me moooooooooooore" she never acted this way b4 also for some reason it got my blood boiling ryan even said "i should take her away from you ohoho" thing is i couln't tell if they were kidding about all that i was about to burst we been going out for 9 monthes i mean she acted like that towards me... idk what to do anymore i asked her that if she wants to talk over phone she said "not right now i have a headache" i mean did she go past the "honeymoon" phase i'm so confused also she sat next to him i was soo pissed they were like 10-20 inches away from each other. idk what to do anymore even tho if it was only today that this happen i beggining to have doubts. she even found that i was pissed she started calling my name and doing like lil tickling game at me. idk i mean i am so confused plz help me with this situation she says she loves me b4 she goes to bed am i too clingy i asked her if i was she said she didn't care cuz she loves me either way. but i feel ignored even if it was today sorry this was a lil long. I need advice plz it's tearing me inside for some reason at the end she said i love you chris (lets make my name chris) then she said to our freinds "i love ya all ^.~y" thnx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Hi Hunny
I no this hurt your feelings sweetheart, Maybe she is feeling relaxed around you and your mates more, She sounds bubbly sweetheart. I WOULDNT PAY TO MUCH ATTENTION TO IT ALL!!!The reason I say this is if she sees you getting upset she may do it more, My sons g/f used to act this way but has grown up alot over the last year hunny..Then it may just be the fact that she is young and being a little flirty which I no wont help you but hunny the more attention you pay the more it could happen...So go with the flow sweetheart watch how things go and if it gets worse or to a point that its really in ya face have a little chat, jealousy will only make you feel out of control hunny you need to believe in you no matter what so you can get strong the more you worry the worse you will feel and it wont change a thing other than make you ill, I would relax a little it is probably nothing to worry about....if you need a chat message me TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): It's completely normal to have feelings of jelousy, but the way you explained your story kinda makes it seem like you have lack of trust in your girlfriend. women act differently around different people. you just need to trust her more or adress the problem and tell her how you feel.
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