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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I'm confused about this guy's behavior and need help. I'm into him and he knows it. Earlier I used to start a conversation assuming he's shy and introvert but I got sick and tired and stopped texting him. I got his text after 10 days!! He replied properly but sometimes he opens my msgs or snaps late..sometimes after a day! Same with Whatsapp messages. He could be busy but every time ? Why would he do it on purpose? If he wasn't interested, why would he ping me and ask me to plan and meet up soon. I don't understand him.
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reader, miss frank +, writes (2 June 2016):
He's wasting your time. Likely enjoys the attention if nothing else is kicking around. I've found this myself between guys. Good for the ego but meaningless pretty much. It's more than that to you, so look for someone else- he's not that into you, lots of other great men will be- don't waste any more of your precious time.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 June 2016):
 If he knows that you are in to him I think he would make more off an effort if he felt the same way as well. Maybe he likes to play hard to get, or else he likes the attention he gets from you, either way if it was me I would keep my distance from him so I don't get hurt.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 June 2016):
 If he says he is busy or "act" like he is busy, then obviously he IS. JUST not with being on contact with you.
So I would take as he is either playing games (being slow to respond so you become unsure) or... you are just VERY low on his list of priorities and people to text/snap with.
So if I were you, I'd stop wasting my time on him. JUST because you are into him doesn't mean HE is into you. And maybe that is even the problem, he ISN'T into you so by not replying fast he is trying to let you know in a way he think might not hurt your feelings, instead of telling it to your face.
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