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writes:i am interested in group sex but i would like to know about the advantages and disadvantages of group sex and how can i enjoy more with different type of sex. my some friends and their wives are also interested to join in group sex with me and my wife but everybody want to know about bad or good effects in physical healths or others if any.Please advice us and give us some tips for enjoying in group sex.which type of precautions we should have during such type of sex. Reply to this Question
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (17 July 2009):
If you have an Ipod, get on Itunes and search for "swinging" there are many podcasts put out by swinging couples who share their experience in the lifestyle. The good, the bad, and the HOT... worth a listen if your interested!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Two books:
The Lifestyle by Terry Gould
Swinging A Societal Phenomena by Jean Hamel
Documentary:
Swinging in America
Free downloadable interviews
on my website http://www.FBKradio.com
with a variety of swingers, authors and sex experts who can all share their insights and stories.
-Frank B Kermit
http://www.FBKradio.com
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reader, Keria  +, writes (25 July 2008):
I'm not sure if you are for real... this sort of sounds like a joke question.
But, giving you the benefit of the doubt, group sex does not have any phyical bad health effects other than what you would encounter with any sex. If the partners have STD's, and you are unprotected, you leave yourself open to STD's.
Now, emotionally, the effects can be bad. If anyone at all is pressured into doing this, it can be devestating for them. You have to look at the emotional risk and ask yourself if one night of pleasure is worth the guilt and pain that some of the people might experience. If anyone is presured at all, then undoubtedly they will get hurt.
As for benefits... Well, you can have an orgasm.. it feels good, realeases oxytosin... endorphins... all that... Very beneficial... but how is that different than sex with one person? Sometimes a fantasy is best when it stays a fantasy.
Admitatedly, the sexual energy in the room during group sex can be incredible. But this is not for everyone. I have my doubts that you really have several friends who's wives are all interested in this. That's why I think you're joking. Yes, there are people who are interested in group sex, but how did you coincidently come to have several in your circle of friends?
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Well ... group sex maigh be fun, if both of you understand that you will be having sex with different people (at the same room!) ... it could destroy the relationship, if you guys are not as strong as you think you are .. and also if jellaousy comes through ... I would never do it, even tho its one of my fantasies, because I know I would be devastatd seeing my boyfriend "doing" other woman! But if you guys have it clear .. than there is not much to worry about
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