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anonymous
writes:I am in love with my married boss and he's been asking me for nude photos and videos of myself which i have gave him and i have just found out that his wife is pregnant and i dont know what to do. please give me advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): I love the anon lawyers suggestions but it still makes you a homewrecker in the making.
What to do? Develop a conscious and have some self respect.
Oh and becareful of the nude pics : you may just find yourself as a pin up porn star unbeknown to you at first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): Seriously- here is an answer if you would like to make sure you are set for life - forget the "love" aspect of it- he is using you- I am an attorney- this is called quid pro quo- or "this for that" Document EVERYTHING- start emailing him - send him the videos to his private email-
send him the photos to his private email- etc- you get the idea- document it- have proof that it was sent-
In the emails, least you not forget to make sure that you play out the boss / superior role he has- mention things like ....I hope you still think that my work is ok- I hope this wont effect my review...things of that nature-
NOW think with your head- gather enough of this - evidence, and if you feel he is going to pull the plug....DO IT FIRST- Report him to HR, ask to be reassigned, cry- the whole deal- than contace a GOOD attorney ASAP- I kid you not- worth millions- esp in todays day and age-
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (6 February 2011):
 Are you really in love with him.... have you been having a relationship with him, and if so how long?
I would seriously suggest you stop this... some where along the line someone is going to get hurt, and I doubt it will be him... it will either be you or his wife!
No doubt if the wife is pregnant she is off sex right now, so he is getting his kicks elsewhere and you sending him photos and videos is just fullfilling his needs.
Surely you are better than this m'dear... You need to be strong and end it now. Put yourself in his wives shoes.... How would you feel? Its not nice!
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