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*ark.Charmer
writes:Okay recently I have came to the conclusion that I am falling for one of my good friends. I can't stop thinking about him, I worry what he thinks about me. But I am afraid that if I like him and he doesn't like me and finds out it can ruin our friendship. He talks to me alot and recently we have been sitting closer to each other at lunch. How can I tell if he likes me and what should I do :S Reply to this Question
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reader, miriamw  +, writes (27 December 2010):
I am also in love with my good friend. I told him, and he said he just saw me as a friend, nothing more, and the previous answer is right, he didnt act any differently, and we just carry on as friends. Of course, I feel like crap, and although something is starting with another guy, I can never get my friend off my mind, even though I know he doesnt want to be with me. But I feel better knowing, so I would tell him definitely, or you'll feel awful for ages. Trust me.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 You can Google that question and get all those tips online.If a woman tells a man her feelings, it will not affect the friendship as much as a man telling a woman his feelings for her.When a man is not interested, he would still be friends with you . It is only the woman who will feel withdrawn and rejected.When the woman is not interested, she will avoid him and end of the friendship.If he is interested, then you are on. If he answers in the negative, just tell him , you are only joking and move on.If he likes to talk to you a lot, then he is interested in you.You can feel it.
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