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anonymous
writes:When I first met this guy, I couldn't stand him at all. Then something happened that threw us into a common bond and we gradually became friends. I spent more and more time with him and our chemistry became apparent. It's become a drunken habit of ours to makeout and tell each other romantic things and then the next day, act like it never happened because we're both so awkward. Recently an "exotic" foreign chick started hitting on him and he eats up the attention, they even hook up. I'm in love with him and I don't know what to do, i feel like I can't compete with her. . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): Hun Dont sit there watching this happen and driving yourself insane, you had no comitment with him, ok he may be trying to get you all mad inside well if he is its working and if he isnt its working anyway.Dont show your bothered, go out and enjoy yourself dont take so much notice and if he does like you more than just a friends with benifits thing im sure you will find out soon enough. And if he just wants to be friends love just make sure you dont go there as its hurting you to much.He doesnt no how you feel, as you said the next day it was akward. I no this is doing your head in just try as hard as you can not to let it get to you. There are probably loads of men out there who think your lovely, This is the only thing wrong with fwb both partys need to no its just that or you just end up hurt like you are now hun, I really feel for you as it isnt good when you feel for someone and this happens, DONT COMPETE BE YOURSELF, TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (3 September 2007):
 Don't give up just because someone else is hitting on the guy you like. It happens all the time, look at it as a challenge. Im sure you have got just as many if not more good qualities than what she has got. Don't feel like you can't compete with her because you can, you are every bit as good as she is.Don't give up, and hang in there.Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): hi i know how you must be feeling,as i feel like that all the time,but ive realized i got more to me than an exotic body,i got qualities that she could never have and if he couldnt see that then he was more stupid than i thought and he didnt deserve me,so i decided not to try and win him or get his attention he soon realized what we had was worth more than an exotic body,we had a connection
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