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*ainbowGirl
writes:Hi, I am a Personal Assistant and have been sleeping with my single boss for a few months. I have always had a crush on him from the beginning but I never thought that sleeping with him could happen. When we started sleeping with each other, he has always told me that he did not want to hurt me. I know our relationship is based on sex and maybe some emotions - more for me than him but now, he told me that he has met somebody. Though that somebody is thousand of miles away,i still feel so jealous. It was all fun and games before but now, its hurting me. We are still sleeping with each other but recently he said that we should stop. My heart is in pain.I thought of telling him how i feel, but i think he already knows. Because of this, i feel like resigning but im too scared to look for another job because the economy is not stable. I have been feeling bitter, seeing people with relaitonships and now, i keep on thinking why cant he pick me? Im in pain.I need help. What should I do?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 April 2016):
 Know that he will never "pick" you. Your pain will only continue and grow as long as you stay around him. Honeypie is right, start looking for another position ASAP and when you find a good fit somewhere else quit your job and don't look back. This is a total dead end.
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reader, N91  +, writes (7 April 2016):
 You need to find another job I think or you'll never get over him. He has stopped things because he doesn't see it as anything more than sex and he has realised it's not a good idea.
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reader, Pure Flame  +, writes (5 April 2016):
Honeypie ur absoluty right keep your sex life out of the work place....move on and enjoy ur freedom ....we all r eith you...God bless you Dear
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 April 2016):
 Look for another job BEFORE quitting.
And stop sleeping with him.
He used you because you were available and willing, and YOU used him right back. Sleeping with your boss is rarely a great idea. Looking for love in the work place? Not a great idea either, because IF it doesn't work out... THIS pain and awkwardness is what you end up with.
And next time, keep your sex life out of the work place.
BE professional.
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