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writes:Hello, i'm just wondering...what are the signs that a guy is in love with you but is too scared to tell you? Like a guy friend? Do hints mean anything at all..?Are there certain things he might do? Is being jealous of you with other guys normal behaviour?I'm in love with him too, but i'm too scared to tell him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): I was in the same situation as you. This guy I was wanting to date for over a year had never known what love was. He was scared of commitment, hard to trust, and never known if he was telling me the truth. I was scared to tell him I was in love with him. scared that he might just lie to me. You can't help who you fall in love with. & I certainly wasn't wanting to be with him. I finaly started to relize he was in love with me too. And these are some signs I picked up on...
-Do sweet little things for you
-Bragging about you
-staring & gazing into your eyes
-realizing he's wanting to be with you all the time
-admiring everything about you
-he'll want to help you with everything
- he'll make some sacrafices for you (big or small)
Now how to tell him...
Tell him you have to talk to him. Ask him how much he cares about you. Then you will get a clear answer on what he thinks about you. Then you can decide to tell him or not. The best thing to do is to tell him bluntly. Be brave! & If he doesn't feel the same about you, He's not worth your time.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (22 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Falling in love with someone can be an amazing feeling, especially when it's for the first time. And it isn't always easy to be certain that he feels exactly the same way. It's natural to feel anxious about revealing your feelings; telling someone you love them could make you feel vulnerable and risks changing the relationship for good. The length of time you've been together isn't necessarily important (though telling someone you love them on the second date isn't advisable) as strong feelings can develop very quickly, depending on the kind of people you are. As for signs he's in love with you, if this is the case he'll probably be very affectionate, will want to spend as much time as possible with you and will find it hard to say goodbye when you have to be apart. Of course, everybody is different and these are just general signs. It's up to you whether you tell him you love him, or wait for him to say it first; there's no right or wrong way of going about it. If you don't want to make it too much of a big deal you could just let it slip out next time you're having a good time together. He may say I love you too, but don't be shocked or surprised if he doesn't respond. What matters is that once you've said you love someone you can't take it back. If he doesn't feel the same way (he's crazy lol) he'll know you feel more strongly about him than he does about you, which could change the dynamics of the relationship for good. The words, 'I love you', are just words that express a feeling. Some people find them easier to say than others. Some people say them to lots of people all the time. Others only use them to one or two very special people in their lives. What's important is how you feel and whether you decide to say 'I love you,' not second guessing how he might react.
I hope my advice was of some help to you sweetie :o) good luck ok... If you ever need someoe to talk to or just a shoulder to cry on or maybe a little more advice, truely i'm always here for you ok :o) don't hesitate to email me i'm always here for you ok.
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): The easiest thing to do is tell him, if he doesnt feel the same he will be pleased he has an admirer.
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