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writes: I got with a man 4 years ago. We were 19 then. After 8 months I was pregnant. We decided to keep the baby. He promised hed take care of us, however I was the one who worked up to one week before giving birth. He was made redundant but didn't seem bothered and refused to get a job.We had rent, food bills, etc to pay. He used most of our money to go out with his friends and leave me indoors. One night of which I was attacked by someone I thought was an electrician. The rest of our money went on cannabis. He got very nasty, paranoid and would put me down in front of our friends and family. The mental abuse was awful; the only thing that kept me going was our child.I loved him very much and eventually I thought the only way he'd buck his ideas up was to kick him out. I see him now to drop off our daughter but he continues to make comments. I realise why I'm not with him. I'm now in a relationship with his brother, have been on/off for nearly two years. It started only 3 months after splitting from my ex. I'm in love with his brother as he is with me. He's only 19 and no one knows about us.Should I keep seeing him behind everyones back? I love the rest of his family, except his older brother (my ex). My daughter is 3 and am sure she'll wonder why her uncle comes over so much, but he's everything I could ever want and I've seen other men in between and they don't compare.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2005): Just go for it! Your ex is an ex for a reason. You never know he could still like you and become incredibly jelous.
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