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I'm impatient to date her, how do I convince her the ex isn't a problem?

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Question - (12 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ive been hanging out with a new girl for the past 2 weeks and weve known each other for years and have liked each other for years, but due to complications we didnt date each other. It seems that we are going to finally do that soon.

She wanted to wait a little while before dating officially because i just got out of a relationship but im ready to move on and i want her to know that and i want her to stop being afraid of my ex and date me.

What should i say that would make her realize i really want this to happen and i cant wait much longer?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008):

She isn't "afraid of your ex" she is a reasonable girl who knows that someone fresh out of a relationship needs time to themselves before they can start a healthy new relationship. I'm sure you are anxious to start dating again, but she is understandably not so anxious to get involved just yet.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 March 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntJust simply tell her that you like her a lot and want to start dating, but don't put too much pressure on her. She may need a little more time to adjust and work out her feelings about your ex. I'm afraid if you push too hard you may scare her away.

Good luck!

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