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writes: I know it's an old problem, but I'm completely, helplessly in love with my freind. But the problem is I know she doesn't feel the same well why would she, she's perfect in every way possible, at least in my eyes, we have pretty much EVERYTHING in common. I've never loved anything in the world more than her. But to add to the problems I'm really shitty and akward when I talk to girls I really like, I've been in deep and committed relationships before, but with her I can't control myself she's just so great, but somebody help me I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (19 June 2012):
You sound just like me. I love my best friend beyond those words. I couldnt describe how i feel, and how badly i want things to work out between us reletionship wise. But it probably will never happen.At one point she had feelings for me, but its long gone. And ever since whenever i bring up my feelings, we get in a fight and she wont talk to me.So i realize now the right thing to do is be her friend and stay her friendYou need to always be there for her. And someday she might come around, but until then you have to deal with being just a friend. If you do decide to tell her, and your rejected. You need to patch things up as fast as possible and make it not awkward
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