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writes: hi there,I've been married for 19yrs now and we have a daughter. I thought our marriage would go on forever but my husband has become very bitter he makes me cry all the time.Last year i ordererd some food things from an internet site and i became friendly with the owner. I told him my story and he was really lovely andhe came over for a holiday last jan and we clicked immediately ,we ended up making love it was fantastic now hes gone back but wants to come over again later this year ,he emails as much as he can as hes very busy.I've fallen head over heels for him but i dont really know how he feels. He has a girlfriend but he says they are just friends...i'm so madly in love...what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): Hi Hunny
You have to think how to change your circumstanses with your husband love, If he is cruel to you then you have to consider if you want to stay with him. If you feel you can leave and get your independence back then if this is an opption that you can do and afford to do think and plan...
About your friend, You will have to see if his situation with this girl is a g/f as I have this feeling he may be lying to you but thats just my feeling as your vunerable. Thats all that concerns me hunny as you told him all your feelings about how your life was like with your husband...Hunny message me and we can chat there is so much I could say to you ok TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi allwell he still keeps emailing me this is so hard to ignore what can i doi love him still so much ive tried to ignore the mails but they still keep coming when hes not too busy at workplease help i dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Hi Hunny
My advise is be very carefull. He has a girlfriend but he says she is just a friend! And when he came to you it was a business trip. I say this because you confided in him and he saw your vunerability, He could sense how unhappy you are and he could very well have taken advantage of that to get you into bed...He is very busy and e-mails as much as he can hunny and he will be coming back in the year to spend how long with you?
Be very carefull I dont want to rain on your parade here but your very unhappy and your marriage is not good if your husband has turned out so bitter that you cry so much, And in moments of sadness we can sometimes turn to anyone and that anyone could use our pain for there own pleasure and your in a bad way as it is...He may very well like you very much but he needs to show you this and from what you have said he isnt showing you much at all so you could end up going from the frying pan into the fire, So be prepared...Im sending you a link on self esteem so you can get some of that confidence back that your husband has knocked out of you sweetheart and hopefully it will make you stronger inside stronger for yourself and your own self protection...
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php
Im also sending you a link on self confidence hun you need to get all this back to be able to cope with anything life may throw at you no matter what.
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
You say your head over heels inlove with this man but he hasnt given you any idea on how he feels about you in these e-mails.. So sweetheart take it slow dont rush read what ive sent you get strong before you commit your heart to another before you really no anything about his life and how he feels for you and your situation, This is all said with kindness and hunny I no what its like to feel lost in a marriage and I no what its like when someone comes along and says they find all the things great about you that your husband hasnt said in years. Ive been through it all more than once and I would hate for you to get even more hurt before you have had time to heal, READ THESE LINKS LOVE AND MESSAGE ME IF YOU NEED A CHAT WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, superbunny  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 If you're still married you husband, you mustn't do anything! An affair will break not only his heart, but your daughter's as well!
On the girlfriend/just friend side of things, you will have to trust what he says - especially if he lives far away - and just hope that everything goes according to plan!!
Best Wishes. :] x
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