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30-35,
*arukosan
writes:hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of my good friends. i find it weird that its going to be my best friend naked the samee room having sex with my gf for hours. i also find it weird that the weird part turns me on having it be awkward. i also fantasize about having sex with my gf while my friends are having sex with theirs in the same car, area in general. she knows ive been talking to her about it but i always say im just joking around but ive got her to say yes and i can get her to agree to pretty much anything. im just wondering what you people have to say. have you done such a thing before ? how was it? how often did you do it ?
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reader, ilovemonkees1989  +, writes (23 December 2008):
See... My boyfriend wants me to do this with another girl... and I can definitely tell you, I know I am not comfortable with it. I did it once with him, (I made sure it was a girl that was interested in me and not him to avoid the likeliness of him getting with her after... and no. I'm not into this kinda thing at all), but like you and your girlfriend, he pushed and pushed and pushed me until I thought I'd have to do it or I'd lose him.
Now he asks for it still, knowing full well I'm uncomfortable with it, and is trying to talk me into them more... even if I don't participate and am "just there to control it". I can tell you, this is a very hurtful situation.
So please, keep in mind your girlfriend's feelings. Both what they are now, and what they could turn out to be after this. Because no matter how much you tell her you "love" her, it'll probably be difficult for her to believe it afterwards.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): Dear harukosan,
This is a very bad idea. You do know that you are using emotional pressure and bullying this girl into agreeing something that you may both later regret...
"she knows ive been talking to her about it but i always say im just joking around but ive got her to say yes and i can get her to agree to pretty much anything" Original post
I'm very scared for your girlfriends safety as long as she stays with you. You have fantasies about threesomes, what will it be next, will you start nagging her until she has sex with animals as well... She's a human being. You know she doesn't want to do this, but you don't care. You neither love her nor respect her. You will continue nagging her until she dose this and then I bet it disgusts you and you put all the blame on her. Please have a little consideration for this human being. She has a father, a mother, she has people that care about her, even if you don't. What about her reputation, what if people start talking about how she let you and your friend have sex with her.
Leave this girl alone, she will hate herself badly if you convince her to do this. Your not a pimp, she's not a whore, she's your girlfriend. Your supposed to love her, protect her and honour her. She not a puppet and she's not a porn star. She's already said no. Don't force her to do something that she will regret until the day she dies. She's only bloody 19years old. I would hate to have such a selfish, sick, abusive son such as you. I wonder what your friends and family will say when they find out exactly what a heartless creep you are....
LEAVE HER ALONE.. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO DO IT.. THIS IS AS CLOSE TO SEXUAL ABUSE AS RAPE IS....
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): If your going to do this, please don't do it with a freind, that just cause more problems in the long run. I bet you, you may end up feeling jealous and their may be less chance of that, with someone you don't really know as well.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (30 September 2008):
 No no no no....trust me do not use the good friend...im sure you both fantasise about things we all do...but instead of the 3som why not explore each other more im sure you have not tried everything u could with each other. Threesomes bring jealously, and sometimes the desire overtakes and one wants it more then the other, or if the other one doesnt enjoy it and you do then what?IF this is 100% what you both want then try but be careful and be prepared for the things that come after!
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