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writes:hi i just just lookin for some advice as im really lost right now ,my ex and i broke up after a big argument wer he punched the wall and broke his hand i never heard frm him again he changed his number! then a few weeks ago i found out i was pregnant an i got in touch with him at first he was delighted told me how sorry he was he loved me and couldnt wait 2 b a daddy then he turns on me an says i have clamidia and the babys not his an he wants nothin 2 do wit us nor does his family they blame me 4 him breakin his hand! i was so hurt i went an got std checks 2 prove i had not got one they came back clear an i offered 2 get dna wen the babys born 2 prove 2 him . i loved him with all my heart never done anything on him i put him b4 friends and family so he came back eventually an said sorry again he was confused and believes me then he said he didnt want the baby that i was foolin myself an we both said hurtful things an cut contact again then i txt him 2 tell him im sorry 4 my part in all this an i still love him an miss him an now he says he nos eveything ive been up 2 since we split and im a liar and i done all this myself. aparently my ex bestfriend told him i was with people when we broke up 2 years ago 4 a month he refuses 2 talk 2 me or believe me i never done nothin 2 break his trust its him who lied im so hurt an confused how can he do this?? i hurt so much im havin our baby an he doesnt care he called me a whore wat should i do
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reader, prego2193  +, writes (13 January 2011):
im going through the same thing and my ex got a gf two days after we broke up knowin im pregnant and says he still loves me and cares buhh i can tell he dnt nd he says my baby isnt his.. buhh i kno it is buhh this guy said i cheated with him nd i really didnt buhh my ex believes the guy nd they r bessfriends now nd he says ima whore and tht my baby isnt his.. idk wat ta do either. he was textin me earlier bein all nice and i seen him at skool nd he hugged me and everythin buhh when i left skool he texted me sayin ima piece of crap nobody cares bout me or my baby and tht pussy is pussy and tht everythin is my fault and tht i never loved him cuz i cheated on him.. i tried ta tell him i didnt cheat buhh he really has it set in his head tht i did.. =(
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (17 September 2008):
 First of all, stop talking to the asshole.
Second of all, get support from family, friends, and prenatal support groups.
And since he likes playing games so much, call his ass, and tell him that you're going to abort the baby (even though you're not, hopefully.)See what he does then!
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