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writes: Ok. here is the deal, I've been with my husband for going on eight years now, and for the past four or so, I've been having reaccuring dreams of this guy who I had this one time sex thing before I married my husband. He was the last person I slept with before I got married to my husband. For some reason I have these dreams about him and I and I often wonder what they mean after I have them as in why I have them. I dont even think about the guy or even live in the same town as he does to even run into him or anything and all of a sudden out of nowhere I'll have these dreams of him. My husband and I have this normal, average marriage with kids and all and I dont see why this is happening to me. Its sounds weird, but this sometimes scares me. I would hate to be calling out this guys name while Im asleep and for my husband to hear it as my husband knows very well who this guy is and hates him with a passion. I feel guilty as if Im cheating on my husband or something.I love my husband dearly. No he isnt a guy that I cheated on my husband with as we were broken up at the time that that happened. It may sound strange and all, but I think this is a serious problem. these dreams feel so real that i want them to competley stop. could anyone out there please give me some answers or something!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): we all have dreams, including dreams about past relationships. dreams are just fantasies and escapism, nothing you should be ashamed of. its normal to wonder 'what if' sometimes. this doesnt necessarily mean you're unhappy in your current situation, it just means that something unconscious stirred up a memory somehow! don't worry and im sure this will pass.
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