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writes:ok heres the situation...Im currently living in the same area as my GF...but at christmas time I am moving to Wellington to be with my mums family...My family has said it is OK for her to come with us, however...she doesnt know if she can...and I love my GF so much and i dont want to hurt her and I know a relationship from northland to wellington just wont work...we are too attatched...Anyways...my question is, What do i do...do i:1. break it off early to give myself time to get used to it?2 or stick with her till it gets relaly unbearable down there?3. stay with her nomatter if it ends up me hurting myself to keep us together?Please help me this is a deep issue hurting me inside so badly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you :) Thanks to your help I have decided to stay with her :) i told her what I thought and she just said tht its what she wants too :) thankyou guys so much!!
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (28 March 2007):
 She probably doesn't want to think about it. It seems it's going to be up to you then how you deal with this situation. I hope you can do whats best for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thanku :) I forgot to mention that we have talked about it but she doesnt want to help with the decision...is that saying she just wants to end it but is too afraid to tell me that?
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reader, Reebe +, writes (28 March 2007):
Hello there,
this is a tricky one, I would talk to her about what she wants and ask her what she thinks will happen when you move away.
If you both decide you should end things, then maybe see each other a little less and try and break things off slowly, or you could go competely the other way and just end things now, although this might hurt more if you would still see her around. Although you might not believe me if you ended things with her now you could be feeling a whole lot better christmas.
I;m afraid only you know what you can handle and what you think is best for you.
Good Luck!
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