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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:During university, i had a connection with 1 certain person. we became friends, however, i made sure nothing happened between as i wanted it to mean a lot more as we both knew we had a special connection. anyway, nothing happened, we both left uni. 12 years on, i contacted him again and we both met up. both of us admitted that we had a connection and had feelings for each other even after 12 years! unfortunately, i get very nervous and he feels that he makes me feel uncomfortable. the second time we met, i stayed over with him and one thing lead to another. my nerves again got the better of me and i left early. I have since tried to explain and have told him how i feel, but i am getting no response from him.
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reader, chloe71z  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Sounds like mabie you were just afling for the night I would move on and if he contacts you then make him give chase to be able to meet with you again. men like to chase woman if gives then a challange.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Hmmm. I'd move on. He should be making the first move, not you. Men pursue women, not the other way around. If he hasn't responded, he's not interested. That may sound harsh, but I'd rather know that than trying to make things work with a man that wasn't really that in to me and two years later he leaves me for someone he was crazy about.
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