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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I need guy help, big time. Okay, there is this guy at my school, he is really cute and in the same grade, but he a part of the football. I am not one of the 'popular' girls. Anyway, he is in some of my classes and I get really mixed signals from him. Sometimes I look over and notice him lookin at me. He will say thre sweetest things to me in class, like one time he called me a "white rose." Then there are other days that I try to talk to him, but he seems to ignore me. I am not to good at the whole thing of dating, having never dated before. What should I do? I only have 18 more weeks of school before I graduate. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, LouLee +, writes (5 January 2008):
Well i was in a similar situation to you a couple of months back so i can totally relate to you. It sounds like he's just flirtatious, All popular boys are like that and tend to only go out with the 'popular' girls but sometimes there are exceptions. I agree with Laura1318 where it comes to having to know what their weather reports are, basically i would just try to find a better guy, one that speaks to you whatever the weather. The thing about these cute guys is that they can be very stubborn and only speak to people when it suits them x
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (5 January 2008):
Some guys are flirtatious and they will flirt with any girls when they are in the good mood. Just treat is as some quick fun and nothing more.Enjoy it and don't be serious.
They are guys like you said, someday , they want to play ball and other days , they act like they don't know you exist.Those days when they ignore you , his mind is screwed the wrong way.
For these guys , you need to read their weather reports. Talk to them when they are sunny and when rainy , don't go near them.
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