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anonymous
writes:i might be getting back with my ex boyfriend but im in love with someone else but the problem is this lad i am in love with lives miles away from me and doesnt want nout to do with me. my ex boyriend loves me and i used to love him i am just scared incase i dont fall back in love with him and it doesnt work what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2007): You know i believe that love can rekindle itself and let him know that you don't love him but that you are willing to give it another shot. I just think that life is not always like what everyone thinks. His love for you might be strong enough and in time you will learn to love him as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): Firstly if you don't love your ex (and love another guy instead) then why are you getting back with him? Split with him. You've already tried this relationship once and didn't work then so what's to say that it's going to work now? Especially seeing as your heart isn't in it. Secondly get over the guy that you are in love with. He's made it clear that he wants nothing to do with you so what's the point wasting your time over him? Thirdly find someone who you love, loves you back and actually wants a relationship with you.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 Getting back with your ex-boyfriend is not such a good idea if you're not in love with him. I think it's even a bit unfair to him that you're considering being with him just because you can't have that other guy you're in love with.
Have you considered that if your relationship already ended once, what's to say you will be happy together this time? Especially since you don't love him.
Maybe you should just give yourself some time to find someone that you can really love before you start your next relationship.
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