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writes:ugh! i feel so damn stupid ok it all started when i first met him, i met him because we both are going to be in a quince (sweet 15), but me i'm not openly gay and trust me no one suspects because i act sooo much like a straight guy, so yeah , it all started when i first saw him and i kept wanting to look at him because he is EXTREMELY attractive and i mean extremely! plus he's mexican like me and i loveee mexican boys but anyways yeah we started talking and hanging out in groups and he is a sucha jokster which i love :P and he would always play around with me like he would call me baby and hold my hands and pretend he would kiss me and obviously i love it and know it is fake (trust me he is not gay i can tell when someone is hiding something and is gay or bi and trust me he's not!!) but it just makes me fall in love more and i feel so bad because my friend that i'm really close to that's a girl , that's her ex and she still loves him you know but i don't know his masculinity and his athletic side and his looks just make me like him sooo much more how can i stop likening him when i know i can NEVER have him it just hurts so much! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): it seems u like this guy very much, tho it cud be a bit of a difficult situation if it's your friend's ex and u know he's straight :-S i think the best thing to try to do is to get over him.. though i know how difficult it is to do that! try and focus on school and if that's unsuccessful, maybe just try and think about someone else? see if there's anyone else u cud like as much.
And not as many people as u think r against gay relationships! i know i'm definitely not and like all my friends r fine with it!
I wish u the best of luck!!
xxxxx
p.s. don't be afraid to just be yourself, or you'll live a worse life knowing that you're always hiding something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Hunny
I have nothing against same gender relationships my own son is gay YOU TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, desperateluver1 +, writes (7 March 2008):
desperateluver1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for replying!! perhaps he does know i like it but i don't think he does because like i said he doesn't think i'm gay and my female friend doesn't either and well yeah i guess there will be other guys out there and it just really sucks that i live in an age where the majority of society hates and is against any same gender relationships :( i really like him but i guess it's a definite no no
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Oh hunny
I guess he kinda knows you like the attention it may stick out a little more than you think from what you have said, I have many gay friends...All you can do is try and think possitive and realise he is not gay..Does your girl mate no your gay? If this is something you have confided in her or she may have guessed as I did with one of mine just keep this in mind and try not to take this to heart hunny as there will be another hunky guy around the corner who is waiting for you to come into his life your young so you have plenty of time sweetheart, Be strong and try not to let this get you down hun if you want to talk message me anytime TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Hey hunni!
This isnt a problem cuz youre gay, tis a totally normal teen problem, and we hav all been there I promise.
In reality the best thing to do is to try to get over him, cuz it seems like a friendship you dont want to ruin, but in the mean time you can enjoy the feeling of wanting and longing etc...
I hope this helps, you can message mee if you want to chat more and I can try to help...
Big hug sweetie!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Dude, you need to get over him. If you know 100% that he's straight then its just for the best. If you like him for his looks then it wont be that hard. It will stop you from getting hurt. If he jokes about kissing you or whatever, tell him to stop cos it will just make it worse! Good luck
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