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I want to go out with the new guy, but I'm worried incase my old feelings for my ex mess things up! What can I do?

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Question - (6 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Last year I became really good friends with a guy, we would go out, talk for hours and hours about nothing, and just spend time together and basically i began to fall for him.

However, soon after this we grew apart for no reason.

So i soon got over him and now i like another guy, but whenever I see the guy I was with before I cant help but feel something for him, and he sort of takes over my feelings-even though i havent spoken to him for about 2 months.

I want to go out with the new guy-but im worried in case my old feelings mess things up, what shoould i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008):

Which feelings do you feel the strongest?

Seeing as you used to feel something for someone it is likely that you will always have some feelings for him - but you may like someone else much, much more...

In the end hunny its your choice. Forget whatever your brain tells you to do because love isn't something thats logical. Love is something that can be there for no reason at all. So let your heart lead you in the right direction.

You are in no hurry to make a decision - so take your time.

Good luck with everything. x x x

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