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writes:eed some advice!I've just recently been employed, and currently in training. My trainer is really really good looking, and I took a fancy to her straight away. But I am 21 and she is 35 and has a daughter and a partner. And I have a gf at the moment. Things between me and my girlfriend haven't been good in a while, and I have thought about breaking up with her long before I started this job, so it's not strictly a playing away in my the eyes. My trainer flirts with me like MAD, yet at the same time I feel like she is mothering me. She does all my stuff for me, concentrates on me the most of the group, always touches me and makes eye contact with me straight away. During a lunch period, we sat alone and were discussing each others lives. She told me she wanted botox and a boob job, and I said she is stunning and doesn't need one. She should actually be a supermodel, and that is no lie! We got talking about family, and then I told her I went to Amsterdam for two weeks and she asked what I had done. I told her I got stoned for the whole duration and she came sat really close to me and was looking at my videos and photos and was laughing her head off. (I don't know if I crossed the line of professionalism there :\). She has stroked my arms, bent right over me ect. Today we were all having a cigarette break and she kept cutting off conversation in order to talk to me. I told her a stupid story about what my friend made me do once about going upto a boy and saying something in French which translated to faster, faster, yes, yes, yes. She burst out laughing, looked at me and said she must use that... especially if she gets lucky. She was intent on me and I had to break eye contact. After when we went back in I made a comment about her being bitchy as a joke and she laughed. Ten minutes later she said she was upset about being called a bitch. And I said who called you a bitch, and she went you!! and laughed. I apologized and said I was only joking.. but I don't know. She called me her "little princess" and said she calls her daughter that. I don't understand. Is she just being motherly :\
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): And by the way, my names laura. I just registered I'm nickname 72332 if you wana chat :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): Hey, yep she made the first move. We started texting and she revealed she liked me even though she was 100% straight before. Ironically when we first worked together we hated one another! I did have an inkling she liked me, like you do with your trainer. She was giving me preferential treatment which I loved lol! She spent all her time with me, came to find me wherever I was working just to talk to me and to see me. From what you've said, she could very well much like you. If I register on here, do you wanna chat, its ok if you don't just thought it'd be bit more private than revealing all our glory details on here! Plus you can give me regular updates!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): Hey, OP here!! How did the relationship with your manager occur? Did she make the first move? And what were the tell tale signs she liked you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): Hey! We should meet up girl, you sound just like me!! I posted the first answer on your question......I know exactly what you mean, she old boss was like that and turns out she did fancy me and we went out for 7 and a half months, she was way too hot for me and I'm more of the preppy girl next door lol! I'm not the pursuing type but if I learnt anything....if you like her don't waste anytime in pursuing her! Its hard I know, I like a girl that's super super hot and I just totally freeze when she comes over to see me! I can't even get me words out - its so difficult when they are so hot!!! I wouldn't worry about the little princess thing incase she's tryin to tell you that you mean a lot to her like her daughter? P.S......all guys are useless aren't they? She got that one right lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): Hey,
I'm the original poster of this!
She is with a man, but I know she is having man problems and says they are useless and stuff. It weirded me out when she referred to me as her 'little princess' which she immediately stated she called her daughter. I can't fancy her if she thinks of me as a baby!! I've had this issue with all past managers, they treat me like I'm some sort of innocent little girl as if butter wouldn't melt in my mouth! But this feels different, I know she wants to talk to me, and any opportunity she has she will sit right next to me or facing always in my direction.
I can't ask her out for a drink because I've not known her for that long and also I'm not a pursuing type.
I'm not ugly, but she is literally SUPERMODEL hot. So I keep thinking someone of her calibre would never look twice at someone who looks literally like the girl next door type with a bit of a cheeky side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2011): No I don't think she is being motherly. Firstly if you're not happy with your gf finish it, you never know that may be why your trainer hasn't made her move? And if it isn't then at least she could be your shoulder to cry on!! You never said whether she knew you were gay or not? You refer to her partner.......as in married or gf or bf? obviously bonus points if she is already gay if not might be a bit tricky to know whether she likes you or just being friendly! Have you asked her out for a drink or something like that? You should do then refer to it on day with something like......are you still on for our date later?!! And see what expression she has....if she looks into your eyes with deep meaningful eye contact and says yes can't wait or something positive then she likes you! I am gay too and the hardest part is knowing whether the girl likes you or not!!
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