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writes: Hello! Me and my girlfriend have been with each other over 2 months, but she has a bit of an issue that she doesn't think she can get over. And that's that she doesn't want to have 2nd or 3rd base done to her, for the reason that she thinks it's repulsive for the guy. Now I have told her I'm fine with it but she still doesn't want to do it. She said to me it's fine but not to her. We just need some guidance! Please provide some!! Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, GLforever +, writes (28 January 2006):
 It can be frustrating when a woman feels the way your GF does about cunnilingus. Unfortunately some women are ashamed and embarrassed by the taste and scent of their vagina.
I have heard that some women resist receiving oral sex so that they will not feel "obligated" to return the favor for the man in their life. Could that be an issue in your situation?
Anyway, there is no sense in harping on the matter. Perhaps just occasionally - and I do mean occasionally, not all the time - mention that you would enjoy performing oral sex for her. Someday she may surprise you and say "OK".
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (28 January 2006):
 I know t it hard when you are so fine with something and your girl can't seem to get on board, but you will earn huge points by respecting her wishes. As she grows more comfortable with you, you will probably find that she will be more open to try new things (or old things that she previously thought were repulsive). Give her time and understanding and in the end you'll see that she will let you do a lot more than you get to now. Good luck.
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