I'm fed up with how my partner's treating me, and I'm scared for my daughter. Any advice?

A female age 36-40, *rokenbaby writes:

Hi everyone, I have been having sex with a man since i was 15 (same year i went to college). He is the only man i have been with though he has a lot of girlfirends and have sex with many people. Anyway, I am 23 years old now working as a nurse.I live with him and We have a 1 1/2 year old baby girl. The problem is that i am fed ou of the way he's treating me, he dosen't have a job and so he sells me to many of his friends for money each day. He even expects me after having sex with these guys to have sex with him. While I am making ends meat, he don't care for our baby, he often leaves her with his mother, who uses drugs and dosen't take good care of her.He prefers to go drinking nd smoking with his friends rather than caring for his baby. My family has disowned my daughter and I and I am really afraid for her, I don't even get to play with my baby anymore. I love the guy very much but he has problems and I am afraid to leave since he does not have a job, I also want to get my masters degree in a few years. I love this guy very much but he is selfish. What sould i do?

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