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30-35,
*ylleX
writes:Okay, Ive been best friends with my friend Chris for like 4 years. He got into a relationship with another guy (were both gay) and Im falling for my best friends boyfriend... what am i supposed to do? Im Gay, Chris is Gay, and Chris' boyfriend is Bi. I dont know what to do... help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): you know what I need help
with that 2 ... Why don't you
go to a gay bar and do sumone
and see how it goes maybe
You can get over it or you can
try to seprate them or finding
what they both hate and try
to twist things up maybe you
can get that guy, but dude why
don't you go find you a girl?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): All I can say is, I fell for my best friend's boyfriend (I'm straight), and got him basically, and now we've been together for 16 months. But my best friend never forgave me, and I lost her. I felt so guilty, but in a way, I'm glad I'm with him, because he makes me feel so special.
So my advice to you is, if you really think that you stand a chance with this guy, and your feelings are just totally unable to be hidden inside, then tell your best friend's boyfriend. Tell him how you feel about him, and that if he thinks this is inappropriate, you will not go any further. Reassure him you won't try anything, and you'll keep away as much as possible. This way, you get it sorted out, you know where you stand, and your best friend doesn't get hurt. However, if he says he likes you too, then it's only fair on your best friend if you both tell him together. Then, the story unfolds from there... Good luck :]
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 how is he round you? cause if you fancy him and hes with your best friend it wouldnt be the best idea to steal him away, you'll lose your friend and theres no gurantee the friends bf would stay.
sorry to be so rash
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