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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am unsure on how to approach my fwb about making our relationship more committed. We have been seeing each other for almost a year now and things are great but he says he does not want a gf. We spend so much time together and always have fun. We have only been in one argument since we met. Whenever I go to see him he does not seem to want me to leave. People always think that we are bf/gf and the other day we were leaving a restaurant and he came in for a kiss and hug and thanked me for a wonderful day when he pulled away from me he said (very sarcastically) and I wonder why people think that we are together. That got me thinking that just maybe he is ready for a little more but maybe does not want to say it. I don't want anything to change between us except I want him to call me his girlfriend. I like what we have. We see each other a few nights a week I usually stay with him friday night through sunday morning and either wednesday or thursday nights so basically we don't see each other on monday or tuesday. So my question is should I tell him I want to be his gf how should I approach him. And I think I might be falling hard. Reply to this Question
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reader, malum424 +, writes (30 April 2009):
 First thing you should ask yourself is are you happy with the way things are right now. If the answer is no the by all means move forward with guy are try to. As a guy I can tell you that right now you are on a slippery slope with this one.If you push to hard he may run away but on the other and if you don't push he might slip away. the best thing I can tell you is to just ask him if he's ever thought of you as his girlfriend.
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