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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well say 2 weeks ago i added a guy on facebook that i knew (worked together for like 2 months) -he was with someone- so yeh, when i added him, he asked me out for coffee for a few hours later. Stayed out with him till 6 in the morning just talking and getting to know each other. We have seen each other everyday.. for hoursssssss (say 6-8 hours) he was off with me a few days ago and told me he isnt ready to be commited ( he is newly single - bad breakup) and that he wants to see me still but untill he gets his head sorted out he doesnt want to be in a relationship.. (which could take 6months-1year) nowww, i didnt want to DATE seriously i thought either. But by spending so much time with him, i think im already falling for him.. i miss him when im not with him, wait to hear from him, hope to see him if im out etc. We have great chemistry, laugh alot, are in sync with eachother. great kisser. we made love(?!) and f*cked but it was like perfect... :S help, what should i do.. what would you do.. also ive got a job offer that starts january 31st, which then might lead me to move abroad.. should i stay here, and see where this goes.. or should i just go. remembering that i am falling for him big time..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): Januarys a looong way off, in the meantime this mans told you he doesn't want a relationship - he does however want sex.
As your already falling for him its a dangerous position for you to be in emotionally.
I wouldn't jeapordise my future for a man who isn't going to commit, who wants fun but no relationship. He's been honest with you - so now it's up to you ... job or no job offer are you willing to be his plaything?
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