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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello. My question is personal and I'm embarrassed to ask it. I have nice boobs, except one nipple is inverted. I've tried nipple correctors and even had an inpatient surgery a few years ago but nothing's corrected it. I've always been very self conscious about it in the bed room. A guy i dated a few years back pointed it out and gave me a complex. I tried over coming it and just ignoring it, but it seems my new boyfriend doesn't want anything to do with it and it's starting to give me a complex again. He plays with my other boob a lot but doesn't so much as squeeze my ugly one. I'm too shy to mention to him it gets to me, besides at this point i probably wouldn't let him anyways because of how he acted. He's seen a lot of perfect breasts in his days, attending places where chicks are topless and i worry i won't measure up. Is this something other chicks have dealt with and if so, how did they over come it and feel sexy again? Does this bother guys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2018): We are humans and not identical clones of each other. I'm 31 and have seen my fair share of boobs and everyone is so different, ariola, tiny nipples, inverted nipples, lonnnnng nipples, uneven sizes, shape, the list goes on. Things like this make a person unique which is very sexy itself, and every pair of boobs I've seen are sexy in their own way.
Just be confident and remind yourself that any dude who gets to see your booobs has been given a priveledge and anyone who would try shame you over their body is a fuckboi who will never find love.
Be confident, flaunt the nipple, and the sexiness will radiate out of you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 November 2018):
 You know, I have NEVER met a guy who was critical about boobs. Seriously.
Those men who ARE critical about them have UNREALISTIC expectations. No one is perfect, even the "topless chicks" he has seen.
I would suggest you tell him that you REALLY enjoy having your boobs touched, how you like THEM touched and that this is how they look.
If he has any negative comments or complaints, then he ISN'T for you.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (20 November 2018):
 It is NOT ugly. IT IS A NIPPLE! Jerks are jerks. Speak to the boyfriend. If he doesn't want to pay both boobs attention, get rid of him. There will be guys who will LOVE your boobs - BOTH of them. Do not settle for someone who doesn't love ALL of you.
Also, seek therapy - insecurities will hurt you for a long time without help.
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