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*weet_kitten
writes:hello everyone! i need advice i am engaged i was working in dental clinic as a assistant,my doctor is married and i was assisting both of them alternate his wife is my friend and my doctor and she was so nice to me,my doctor felt inlove with me becouse of my nice personality,i never been expected that he will fall inlove with me becouse of our age gap,i told to him i cant love you becouse i dont want to hurt ur wife and i dont like to destroy ur family,but he told me b'coz of you my relationship with my wife getting better even my sex life and it is b'coz of you,i shocked when he told me about this and now i felt inlove with him i dont know why maybe b'coz it is the first time i had relationship in front of guy,he was so very sweet and caring to me now we had secret relationship,and sometimes i really felt guilty b'coz i know this not fear to his wife and to my fiance,but we love each other,and my fiance dont know anything about this b'coz he was in dubai,my relationship with him started through chatting and i saw him only by webcam we didnt meet personaly but i love him also,and he was my near relatives i knew him b'coz of his mother and we make engagement party by our family and relatives only,i want advice what the best thing that i can do about this situation..i know my self im a good person but when it comes to this situation i cant understand my self becouse of love..
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (21 August 2010):
How can he respect you or himself, when he doesn't respect his wife!! what a messed up ordeal. go on w/ your life! thinking that it's normal because before you know it, you are going to be caught up in a web of lies. and yep when his wife finds out and she will! you'll see just how important you are to him and how much he respects you! but i guess we learn from our mistakes! and hopefully make better choices next time. what comes around goes around and people say that's carma, carma to me is that our life is screwed up because of the decisions we make that they turn around to bite us right in the *ss.
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reader, sweet_kitten +, writes (21 August 2010):
sweet_kitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the comment,actually no one know's about our relationship except both of us,but my relationship with him still new 2 months,i know this is not good and i felt guilty also,but i cant resist him coz he was so very dipressed every time i was telling to him that i dont like to have relationship with him...and i dont like to hurt him also bcoz he's very nice to me and he respect me to much...
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reader, sweet_kitten +, writes (21 August 2010):
sweet_kitten is verified as being by the original poster of the questionneed ur advice guys...thanks
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reader, sweet_kitten +, writes (21 August 2010):
sweet_kitten is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhello everyone need advice..
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