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writes: I'm on my early 20's and I was living with my girlfriend of 2 years and suddenly she told me she wasn't in love with me anymore... I was crushed and didn't know what to do....She was feeling like were are best friends but that's about it. This was just over a month ago, and it trully hurts. We never had a big fight or nothing before this.I still in contact with her I call her about twice a week but it seems to me that is easier on her that is on me. She left to Denver for 3 weeks to work right after breaking up. She was busy with work for the first weeks while I was devastated. We talked on the phone a couple of times but I felt horrible, I know it was really hard for her too since she would cry to me everytime we talked and tell me that she didn't want to hurt me and that it was the worse thing she ever felt to hurt someone you love. We had lunch just a week ago and I felt ackward but I think it was good for me to see her and to know that she was fine. She has told me that is something inevitable and that is just not right, she cryes every time we talk about us, but I always bring it up when we talk.I don't know if I should keep on calling her and try to see her, It seems to me that I make up excuses to talk to her, she doesn't call me I am who calls her....Should I keep on seen her or just try to stay as far as possible from her.....She is such a great person, and if we are not together I still want to be her friend but not know about any gus that she is with....I rather not know any of that yet, I am a jelaous guy, and even get hurt when she tells me she goes out and gets drunk with her friends. As for me I quit drinking until I get over her, that's what I think I should do since it makes me feel worse....is been 4 weeks without a beer.. Thanks for the help.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Hi David
Listen up and listen good! My ex broke up with me and i felt exactly the same way. Maybe you should phone her and tell her what you just told me, tell her you want to be friends with her. Try not to be jealous if you are friends and she gets another guy, hey at least she's in your life, even if it is only a small part of it. Good Luck and All The Best For Your Heart -
Phoebe xXx
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