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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a straight female. But for 9 months I have been dating my best friend who happens to be a female also. I do not find girls sexualy attracted at all I am attracted to men but I guess we fell in love. I cheated on my girlfriend with men for 5 months of our relationship. I love her very much but I am not pleased sexually with her at all. We kiss, and I do things to her I never would have thought I would do to a girl because thats not me, but I do not like getting fingered or using dildos or any of that stuff. I enjoy having sex with men and this is an issue in our relationship. I do not think it is fair that she gets pleasure and I do not. So what can we do? Do you think she should approve or let me have sex with men?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): Just leave, you are not bisexual, you are not a lesbian. You need to stop hurting your best freind, you are straight and that means you need to stop wasting your time and her time by staying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): No. I think you should stop hurting her! My mom knew two lesbians and one kept cheating on the other one with a guy, and the one that got cheated on committed suicide, cos they used to do everything together, and it just broke her heart so bad.
So either masturbate and stay, or tell her that it's not working out for you. Now if she brings up the male question or asks you if there is any other option, maybe you could bring up the male question, ie, can I do it with men? Maybe these could be men she approves of or something, just so she knows that they are clean.
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