I'm dating a man who flirts with other girls at the treatment centre we met at and is always blowing hot and cold, but I still want to make it work. How can I prove my love for him is worth it?

A female age 41-50, *IRD1976 writes:

I started dating this guy the day i got out of a treatment center he used to go to meetings in the facility and the things he said were so inspiring!! imagine my suprise that right after we started dating he was still going to meetings not to stay sober but to flirt with the girls he wouldnt even sit next to me and he would shake my hand after and introduce himself like he didnt just have sex with me 2 hours ago.. I stayed and then i caught him with girls on the computer chating on dating sites etc.. he says he loves me and he wants to marry but usually when he calls me he acts like a jerk except for the day he wants to have sex then he is the ost amazing guy i have ever met. 2 years later i am still going through the same thing my heart loves him but most of me hates him i have been trying so hard to prove to him that i am worth his love what else do i do how do i get his attention oh and by the way he is addicted to porn and he says my body is not like the girls he usually goes out with what the hell does that mean

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