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writes: I'm having a real big problem here.My boyfriend is CONSTANTLY horny.And I am CONSTANTLY tired.When we have sex, I do love it. He always makes sure I orgasm, and he always cums at least twice. It's just, I don't have the energy for sex every night.I've been to the doctor, because I feared I might be anaemic as I don't eat meat and faint a lot etc. So recently I had a blood test and it seems my blood was fine..So why am I always too tired? How can I please him, when he has such a high sex drive?Also, please can you help me with how to be better on top? He's always on top and I put myself down because I can't seem to go fast enough to make him cum. Once he even lost his erection!Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): I was having the same problem until not so long ago.. I was shocked with how similar our stories are. I actually went to the doctors aswell because I was fainting quite a lot and I don't eat meat. The being on top situation was solved by gaining self confidence in tryin other positions. Then I was confident enough to be on top and trust me it makes u feel a lot better, especially like the last comment when your boyfriend is thrusting. About being tired and sex drive being too low for my boyfriend, I just toned down my life and stopped doing so much because I was always working hard. I couldn't comment on your situation though because I don't know. Hope I was of help
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Girls and guys generally most of the time have a difference in sex drives...Mostly girls are lower than guys.
It's hard when you're tired, or stressed, and ESPECIALYY when you worry you're not good enough, which I think has more to do with your lack of enthusiasm.
When you're on top, he could help too by thrusting. Sex shouldn't be a one way thing, you both need to work at it.
Has he actually said he's not happy with you on top? I bet you it's a small niggle in your mind that's turned into a mountain, whenever we assume the other person thinks we're not good enough, it just builds up inside.
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Try other positions, doggy is great for example, or spooning.
Good luck, email me if you need to :o)
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