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I'm confused...my father's choice of a suitable guy for marriage or mine?

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Question - (19 August 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Nigeria age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Help my agony aunts!

i have a boyfriend whom we promised marriage together. he is the best person i have ever known. he could spend his last penny on me though he isnt so rich, he is comfortable and i know he loves me so much but his paents dont really want us coz i i come from another state different from theirs. he stood against them for us till they agreed on us, hooking up. we set a date for introduction but since then, his parents have been delaying it for a silly fact that they want to join us with another couple (his brother n his gal too) the same time and the girl's parents are yet to approve so they want me to wait till that is done. i felt insulted.

at the other hand, there is this rich guy that spends alot on me n my siblings but i dont love him. my dad said if i dont marry whom he likes, he would let me do whatever i want but without his paticipation. my parents like him coz they think i am stooping low waiting for the parents of my boyfriend. they like this rich guy and my dad called him yesterday to ask him more abt himself, he went on asking him when would he like to get married to me and he siad he can be ready in two weeks.

i am confused, am i doing the ryt thing waiting or do i go with what my dad wants?

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