A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've known this girl for almost a year now. She is 24 and I am 27. She is a superfriendly type of girl. By "superfriendly" I mean she is the megaflirty type who would make her male friends easily misunderstand her friendship to love. I know this because a few of my friends already got rejected from her. But then she always says she never intended to do so, and that she is simply naturally "friendly".And I thought it would never happen to me, untill last month when I started to have this [wrong]feeling that she liked me. Not just a normal " friendship" like she did to other guys.We talked a lot on MSN during this month which we never did, and got a long really well. Even when she's superbusy, she still managed to talk to me. What made me think she liked me is that she got really jealous every time I mention about other girls during our chat. She laughs at my joke, she would tease me a lot just to make happy..she would say I am fun to be with..etc. Sometimes I caught her looking into my eyes.Last week, we went on a trip together with other friends. I noticed she was acting really weird whenver I ignored her and talked to another female friend. She would look into my eyes and acted like she was upset. She would do everything to get my attention and got really jealous when I talked with other girls. She even found a way to isolate me from other friends for a while just to be with me.And today, I decided to ask her if she has any feeling for me.And the answer as you would expect: she said sorry, so sorry. And ask me how did it happen and since when? She said she wish we could still be friend, and said the world is really cruel. That I would be really hurt.I am really confused now and I'm asking myself if I am just another victim of her mind game. Is there such kind of "friendly" girl out there? Or is it because I show my feeling too early? Should I pursue her or simply go for someone else?* Additional information: she also has a male best friend whom she seems to have a crush on though she always denies it.
View related questions:
best friend, crush, jealous, msn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your comment and advice. I just feel a little stupid to have let myself fall into the trap even if I seemed to have sensed it from the start. Emotion is truly irrational. Anyway, I decided not to waste my time with her anymore.
A
female
reader, sarcy24  +, writes (3 December 2008):
 This lady is obviously a mega attention seeking flirt and once she has got the man interested she immediately withdraws. I have seen it time and time again and it is a massive ego boost for a woman. I would not bother pursuing her at all and immediately behave totally disinterested and look elsewhere as attention seekers do not like it when the attention is removed from them. This will probably get her running back but do not be taken in by her again. She will probably out grow this but not at the moment as she is having too much fun. Don't play her games and go and find someone genuine.
...............................
|
