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writes: Hey, my partner and I spilt up about 2 weeks ago after being together for 1.5 years. It was very difficult at first as i was scared of being alone, but now i am coming to terms with this. He broke up with me and made it clear that he only wants to be friends. I have thought about this and have realised that I dont want to lose him altogether so being friends would be good. We both still have feelings for eachother, but the relationship was never going to work in the long-term, so ending it now was a positive thing for us both.I do have feelings for him but i know after some time this will hopefully fade. My problem is now...how long do i leave it until i see him again? He's already contacted me about meeting up but I have stated that i will only do this in my own time. The fact is i'd love to see him straight away...but it would be for all the wrong reasons. His friend stated that my ex said the same thing. A part of me wants to be with him (as i miss him like crazy)but i'd also like to move on with my own life and be happy. I have been out most nights with friends and having a really good time but a part of me still wants him....please help, im so confused!!! Thanks.
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reader, 23forever +, writes (6 November 2006):
You should get him away from both of your freinds and family and talk because i went through hell wondering when my ex girlfreind split with me...But as it turns out she had found another man and didnt have the decency to tell me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): Hi im 23 and i was in a relationship with my ex for 6 years 3 months ago i split with her. It was her decision to leave me although she has feelings for me now 3 months later i myself decided it was better for me personnaly to move on.
But for you on the other hand you must decide whether or not he is truly the man you love, and what helped me was to write a list of good v's bad / pros & cons... And in the end in my decision not to take my ex back i found that i had more bad feelings for her than good!
I had the problem that she was my first, we lost our virginity to each other so there was mixed emotions 2!!!!
To finish cause this is a bit essay "ish" if you can find the stength in yourself you should get your ex alone away from his freinds/family and just ask if he loves you anymore and tell him how you feel, and if he has feelings for you then he should if hes a decent man let you know the score... ( Best of luck babes Steve )
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