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writes:Hi folks, just need some help here in a strange situation I find myself in.I've been on a dating site for several months now and very recently have been approached by a very pretty oriental ladyboy who is 21. Now I am totally homophobic, hetero, love the ladies etc but this pretty boy has played upon my fantasies. He lives within driving distance, lives with an old guy of 79 and swears he/ she is not having sex with him or anybody else. I feel drawn to him/ her, having spoken on the phone, she sounds very mature and we have made a date to meet soon. Ok, I need sex and love as much as the next divorced/ single guy. Can anyone see any possible bad situation in this that I can't? I know it is strange for me to even consider this but I do feel turned on by this. Opinions/ advice greatly appreciated.
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reader, Jake1984 +, writes (7 November 2008):
Soz, wasn't logged in for the answer i gave last! would appreciate follow-upI believe I'm pretty much hetero, like yourself, but ladyboys / shemales / transexuals really turn me on. You could argue im bi. The point im trying to make is that you shouldn't surpress these fantasies. Its never too late to entertain the idea of something new sexually, it may be the best you've ever had! And there is also the prospect of a relationship on the horizon if things develop. Meet her and have some fun and just see how it goes, you may want to jump into bed or you may want to wait and see how you feel, my advice is go for it!As for last comment about std's. As long as you are safe and sensible then there should be no problem and that goes for hetero intercourse too
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): I believe I'm pretty much hetero, like yourself, but ladyboys / shemales / transexuals really turn me on. You could argue im bi. The point im trying to make is that you shouldn't surpress these fantasies. Its never too late to entertain the idea of something new sexually, it may be the best you've ever had! And there is also the prospect of a relationship on the horizon if things develop.
Meet her and have some fun and just see how it goes, you may want to jump into bed or you may want to wait and see how you feel, my advice is go for it!
As for last comment about std's. As long as you are safe and sensible then there should be no problem and that goes for hetero intercourse too
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): Hmm, I almost know how you feel, some of these ladyboys are so very convincing. However, I have no knowledge of these people nor wish to but if you are completely hetero, then I would be mystified why you would wish to entertain this liaison but sometimes, in desperation, we might think hey - any port in a storm! Well, all you can do is meet this individual and make your own judgements but for God's sake, be careful of std's.
Good luck.
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