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writes: straight, with some bi-curious. I want to experiment with my best friend, but I don't know how to approach it, like how he will handle it. I think he is curious as well, but I don't know. I don't want to ask him, and have him say no, but I want to ask so I can experiment.Please help!!
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (18 October 2016):
My advice is don't go there. Where do you go from there if it all goes pear shaped? Personally Id be looking elsewhere. There is a huge LBGQT community out there to find someone willing and able.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (17 October 2016):
I wouldn't come straight out with it and tell your friend you want to experiment with him because it might just freak him out.
Put it in to a conversation in general. Ask him would he go to a gay club. Also you can say to him you are interesting in exploring that side off you and see how he reacts. If he says he is as well great you could then ask him, if he doesn't then it might be best meeting people who are up for some fun. Remember always be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2016): Once you make a statement like that to a friend theres no going back he might not be curious like your guessing he is . Are you prepared to lose a friendship or have a big change to the friendship if you were to blurt it out and he says no . Have you thought about popping into a gay club either on your own or even with your friend . Your friends reaction could give an indicator to how he feels. Id go on a night out and try new places or id just bring up general chat about how some people are curious and see how the conversation goes and take it from there
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