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I'm bi - should I tell my best friend that I fancy her? She's got a guy, so I know I'd be rejected.

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Question - (18 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok this is simular to my other question but with a little more detail. Im bisexual my best friend is the only one who knows that ive only known her for about a year. Shes got a boyfriend. But i fancy her. Im not sure to tell her that i fancy her as I know im going to get rejected as she has a boyfriend and are friendship might be ruiened please some advice!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

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Ok i understand all of your points of views but my friend isnt like that she has many gay friends and isnt cruel she hasnt even told anyone im bisexual! Also im 13 in december and Im secondary trust me where i come from and what ive been through the pain it can cause me is 0

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

I kind of agree with the other response. I think it is cool that you have a crush on her, but I also think that it could just cause you pain if you tell her. At the age you are, kids can be cruel...she might spread the news to others just for the fun of it and that could mean trouble for you. Perhaps you can find someone else that you know is lesbian or bi, and give it a try. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

If shes got a boyfriend and you dont think she likes you then no, if you know your going to get rejected then what s the point? You are only 10-12 so it might be worth waiting untill you are mature enough to cope with your feelings, and move on to someone else.

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