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writes:Is there hope or am i just a crazy?So my ex of a year and a half broke up with me 6 months ago.At first he wasn't sure and we were on a break. We would talk but i could never control myself i would text, harass him sometimes he would say no chance in hell i dont love you and i would say ok and then he would ask to see me and we would give another chance but still not together so it made me so emotional and crazy after 2 - 3 months of this he said he didnt want to talk to me again so i tryed to overdose on pills, after that we decided to be friends i accepted things were over because of the overdose etc but then he started acting like we were back together we started sleeping together and he would say he cared enough to give it another shot but not yet, 1 month went by and i couldn't take not knowing so i started the text thing again, he changed his number but still calls like once every few weeks to say hi or stop emailing me, he came over on valentine's day and we haven't talked since he says we can never be together againi am 25 and been in other relationships but never felt like this before or acted like this after a break up, i would go out with other guys and i'm attractive, could probably go out with anyone but i want him
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): hey love.dont you worry am in the same process now.jus broken up wih ma' man a month ago been doin jus the same with the texts jus yester i found out am really cute to be clingin to this BUSTARD of a guy who doesnt know what hes missin-His loss!! am still inthe showroom i must say n the demand is very high but the seller has closed the shop but opens window for peeps to window shop......u gettin me?!
Darlin it'll start with ur confidence bout yourself then trust me you'll start feelin like u flying to the moon.acully whats helpin me forget is am in a new continent,country n goen rid of whatever that reminds me of him.
you'll be alright but never let him use you for gods seaks u also need the same but in your case you want it TRUE not FAKE!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): You probably want him partly because you can't have him and it's so frustrating. The chase is more intoxicating than the having.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): i really feel for you,i'm in the same situation. couldn't accept it was over as he was giving me mixed signals so i always had hope, i did all the stupid things like beg and plead and harras him by text and i'm in my late thirties, i should have known better but we all make mistakes when we feel so strongly for someone. i drove him further away and argued by text all the time, he was just throwing me breadcrumbs, so to speak. we split up 6 months ago now and i'm still finding it really hard, i decided to stop contacting him about a month ago now as i wanted to get off this rollar coaster as it was making me ill. you are worth more than having someone mess you about. let him get on with it, i know it's hard but we deserve better. it's their loss. goog luck x
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