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writes: Ok, I'm 18 and i have been with my current boyfriend for three years, we have broken up twice during this time and I saw other people when we were apart. I dumped him both of these times.Now we are living together, and i moved out of state to be with him and I am seriously extrememly attracted to one of his friends! I cant get him out of my head and It's starting to affect my sex life with my current boyfriend.This is really tough for me because its been really hard for me not to act on my feelings with my bf's friend and its even more difficult because i know my family will be really hurt if i break up with him because they are so involved and gave me a guilt trip the last two times we broke up! Help please!-confused
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reader, eddie  +, writes (21 February 2006):
 First of all, you're very young. Yo've been with this guy since you were 15. There must be problems in your relationship if this could so easily get you to consider cheating. This is the way I usually see it, so you go and cheat this time. What about the next atractive guy that comes along? And the one after him? Do you see the picture. There are always going to be people you're attracted to. That's normal. How you react to thtose feelings is what measures your level of maturity. Relationships start one way but become much morre over time. Trust, reliability, friendship etc are what counts. The attraction is important too but yo'll find the deeper you get into a relationship, the attraction eventually comes from other places within your mate.
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