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I'm attached to him, dream about him. How can we be together despite obstacles?

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Question - (18 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *gh101 writes:

So, this is a question about my boyfriend.

Anyways, i have been seeing the same guy for three months today. And his family is c r a z y to say the least.

His mom has a tight grip on him because his brother had become a whore after dating a girl in high school so she absolutely hates all girls now. So thats part of the problem with us.

We have to sneak about to see each other and she gets mad at him and took everything away when she gets mad at him.

cell, truck, ipod, any sort of freedom he had.

And last friday he stoped by and was all fine. and we fooled around for a bit before she called him and he had to go.

The odd part is that he didn't call me. Which isn't like him. So, finally on wed i facebook messaged him and asked:

"Are you mad at me or something?

He said

"I'm pissed off ok my medicen is fucked up and I don't wanna ruin us just give me some time me and the doctors r trying to figure it out"

I pissed off. ''My meds are scewed up and i dont want to ruin us. So i need some time. The docs and i are trying to figure this all out??'' that is that?

But I am just not sure as of what to do. Because i really do like him. And i care because i've been around this long and normally i dump them after a few weeks.

As for what the meds are for i believe it must be anger meds or some sort of emotional controlling meds. Now that i think back i remember seeing an empty bottle of meds on his floor and i remember being like what are these for and i know that he said that he takes meds every day.

But i want to know what would you do? I'm attached to him, my dreams are just FILLED with him. And what do you think he means by "some time"?

Thank you!

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A female reader, cupidus Canada +, writes (19 March 2011):

cupidus agony aunti don't think she is overprotective of him.

I think she's protecting you.

Before getting emotionally involved with anyone.

You should know their baggage.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011):

The time he needs to find himself is pretty close to the amount of time you need to get shed of him.

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