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writes:Hey, I'm 15 years old and I have great friends, but one thing that really annoys me is that i always get the feeling that they prefer hanging around with my brother who is 17 than they do me. Like me and 2 other friends have a little get together a few times a week at one of their places and my brother drives us and so tags along (i have my license but am still not legal to drive on my own.) When we get there, they always want to be near him and talking to him and i feel like such a third wheel. Is there anything i can do to change this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mr.Pimp_2_U  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 Say to him.. this sound weird but.. and explain the situation.. but if he is the kinda brother that would be like haha your friends like me more ect then dont bother coz it will make you in the long run feel worse about it.. and im sure its probably not how you think it is.. its probably just because he can drive and hes that little bit older.. they think wow hes cool he can drive ect.. i have been like that in the past.. on both sides of it.. had friends who i felt liked someone i introduced them to better than me and also i have felt that my brothers mates seem to hang round me like flys when they can but again they probably just think omg hes older hes cool.. he can protect us hope this helps dude
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