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I'm an ex-player who asks... When a women sleeps with a man she becomes emotionally attached..because?

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Question - (24 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2007)
A male , anonymous writes:

My question is about better undertanding the way women love.

I now no longer use women for just sex anymore. However I used to do that and I even was fooling myself that I was not being a player, when I was. It's OK to play if your basically right upfront and its a mutual thing. But playing and dating don't mix to me.

I've now stopped using women for sex for a year ago or so. I'd love to hear you gals elaborate on this one please. Even if I understand this, I love hearing different female view points. This came from a previous question I posted.

I have my own ideas - Please let me hear your thoughts on these, thanks.

Women cannot separate sex and emotion, whereas men can.

Because ...

When a woman sleeps with a man, she becomes emotionally attached.

Because ...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007):

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Once a player allways a player I do not agree - maybe if you look like a hollywood movie star ... I'm not THAT good looking.

The answer is simple ... it is something called Love.

Love of another and love of one's self.

BTW - I'm tired of the bar scene now too many low quality women, heavy drinkers, and a lot of the people there act like morons to me. I'm not in my twenties anymore - that was OK then not anymore. If I'm single and want to play maybe? But no playing while dating - even if things go sour...

its about LOVE

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2007):

Read up on the effects of oxitocyn in women and testosterone in men. I think you'll find your answer there.

I have a question for you too.. is there such a thing as an ex-player? I've heard that once a player always a player. Please clear this up for me as my man claims that he gave all this up but i still have trouble trusting him

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