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I'm an attention seeker and don't know how to change?

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Question - (29 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2007)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

My bf says im an attention seeker and this hurts me, although I guess I know its actually true.

I cant stand him talking to other people when we are out together, so I "sulk" to get his attention. If I ever feel like hes not giving me enough attention I just cry, to get it.

Help? What do I do? Me being a 'attention seeker' is rally making him mad and hes geting to the point where he stops giving me attention.

The thing is, I dont know why I do this besides for the fact that when he gives me this attention, I feel loved and it re assures me in our relationship. please help!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007):

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A female reader, anonymous,- ahh its not as simple as that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007):

well just simply do not get in a mood he will respect you more for that x

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (29 July 2007):

eddie agony auntYou need to develop some self esteem. You can not demand his attention all the time. You'll suffocate him and resent him when he's with others. You need to be happy with yourself as opposed to getting it from him.

Why do you resent it when he's talking to others? Also he''ll not only stop giving you attention, eventually he'll leave. He will get frustrated with your whining and end the relationship.

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