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writes: Hi there! I realy need help. I dated my boyfriend for 11 months when he broke up with me to get with another girl. He dated her for 6 months and then they broke up. 3 months later we got back together. We have now been together for 5 months, but I can't stop woring about if he is going to leav me again. Should I be this worried?(P.S he broke up with me for a week and that was about 2 months befor the major brake up.)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 June 2010):
I can see why you might be worried; it would be a foolish person who forgot the past. Forgetting and forgiving are two different things, however. Have you truly forgiven him? And before you do that, is he truly trustworthy still? I mean, he did leave you for another girl, that must have been devastating.
I'm afraid only time will tell on his motivations. My experience with boys (and girls) at around your age was that you're not necessarily ready to settle down just yet and may not be the most reliable of love interests. His track record isn't the greatest and my advice is to enjoy the relationship but don't hand over your heart for at least a year.
This is a "time will tell" situation. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso the age on this is wrong I'm 17
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